shy002 asked: How does it feel to be submissive I'm in my late 20s and just curious
I will answer this as best I can for you; submission is an individual experience and will feel different for each person depending on the relationship. I can tell you what it feels like for me (and I think most subs would agree) - it feels like freedom.
I’ve always been fiercely independent. I like to figure things out for myself, I have a hard time accepting help from anyone, and I have an intense need to exert control over my life. Although I’ve found a lot of success this way, it’s a double-edged sword, because constantly attempting to exert my will over life’s circumstances is exhausting.
And that’s where submission comes in. D/s is about so much more than sex, it’s about a sacred place that I can let go of my reins and rest. I can stop thinking and analyzing and over-analyzing, because it’s no longer my responsibility - I belong to Him. He is my center, the eye to my emotional storm. His dominance, and the trust and care that comes with it, is the deepest love I’ve ever felt.
That said, a relationship like this is not to be entered into lightly. It takes a lot of communication and trust to have a truly rewarding D/s dynamic. You’re submission is something that a Dom must earn. If you wouldn’t trust him (or her) with your life, don’t trust him with your body.